Thursday, February 22, 2018

The Rebuke


And Peter took [Jesus] aside and began to rebuke him.  –Mark 8:32

I have long-time friend who feels perfectly comfortable telling me what to do.  Even when I don’t ask.  Of course, my friend is also perfectly comfortable when my response is less than appreciative.  It works the other way around too.  When you have a high level of trust with someone, you can get away with prickly exchanges without destroying the relationship.  That’s a gift.

I think Peter and Jesus had that kind of relationship.  Disciple and Master could be open and honest with one another.  But, the exchange in this week’s text seems to test that relationship.  The teacher rebuking the student seems appropriate.  But the student rebuking the teacher!?  And the Messiah at that?!   (In the verses immediately preceding this text Peter confesses that he believes Jesus is the Messiah.)  That seems wildly out of line.   Still, Peter feels comfortable telling Jesus exactly what he thinks.  Maybe it was arrogance.  Maybe foolishness.  Maybe it was just the shock of Jesus’ startling prediction that he was going to Jerusalem to die that drew forth such cheek.  But the fact of the matter is, they had a relationship where that kind of exchange was possible.

I think this exchange between Jesus and Peter reflects the kind of community that Jesus builds and in which he invites us to take part.  A community of grace, forgiveness and mercy where we can be honest and open with one another.  Where we can disagree and even rebuke one another in love.  Where we can be who we are and say what we think without destroying one another. 

Sadly, the church is not always that kind of place.  Too often, rebuke comes with sharp, deadly edges.  Too often, the church reflects the world where the goal is to break down those with whom we disagree, not build them up.  Too often a rebuke is an attack meant to destroy, not an attempt to address concerns, issues and problems in love.   That is not, NOT, how Jesus intends for us to treat one another!  Ever. 

Instead, Jesus invites us to take up our cross and follow him.  Jesus stands with us in our times of suffering, sorrow, and struggle and invites us to stand with one another in our times suffering, sorrow and struggle.  Jesus gave his life to reconcile the world to God, and we are invited to be ministers of that reconciliation.  Jesus rose on the third day, and invites us to live in and share his abundant life with everyone --  no exceptions -- to the ends of the earth. 

Sometimes we, like Peter before us, need a little rebuking.   This wasn’t the last time Peter got it wrong.  Eventually he denied even knowing Jesus.  But, Jesus’ love for his disciple was bigger than that too.   I think it was the depth of that relationship that allowed Peter to become the rock for the church that Jesus knew he could be.   Jesus does the same for us, and that’s a gift.  The Gift.  The gift that sets us free from sin, death and the devil to be exactly who God created us to be.   The gift that sets the church - the community of faith - free to more fully reflect the Reign of God’s grace, mercy and forgiveness for all God’s children.

Peace,
Bishop Mike

Thank you for reading.  This week, I give thanks for the honesty of friends!  I hope and pray you have people in your life like that too.   

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